src: use make_shared for safe allocation

Using the reset does a double allocation and is error prone if some
exception occured which is very unlikely but can happen. make_shared_ptr
gives hedge over this and handle the failure in allocation.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/37139


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>