deps: dlloads node static linked executable

OpenSSL dlloads itself to prevent unloading, in case it might be
dynamically loaded. However when linked statically this will lead to
dloading the main executable.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/21848#issuecomment-498396551
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/29992

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30005
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/28045
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/27925


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>