build, tools: look for local installation of NASM

Search the default installation path for NASM installed by a user
without administrator privileges when not found on the Path or in
the default system-wide installation path.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/36014


Reviewed-By: Zeyu Yang <himself65@outlook.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>