report: refactor configuration management

This commit removes process.report.setOptions(). Instead of
using complex configuration synchronization between C++ and
JS, this commit introduces individual getters and setters.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26414


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Wyatt Preul <wpreul@gmail.com>