doc: remove mailing list

We removed the mailing list from the README and other places quite some
time ago. Core devs don't monitor it much. However, it is still linked
in a couple places in the docs directory. Remove those links.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23932


Reviewed-By: Sakthipriyan Vairamani <thechargingvolcano@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Vse Mozhet Byt <vsemozhetbyt@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Сковорода Никита Андреевич <chalkerx@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>