deps: cherry-pick 9eb96bb from upstream V8

Original commit message:

    [api] Avoid needlessly calling descriptor interceptors

    Reland part of https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/816515.

    Change-Id: I72ad85ffd162fc0563fc25cdf35189e894f9dc82
    Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/1138808


    Commit-Queue: Timothy Gu <timothygu@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Jakob Kummerow <jkummerow@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Benedikt Meurer <bmeurer@chromium.org>
    Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#54492}

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22390
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17480
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17481
Refs: https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/9eb96bb431a52568c4964dee03569eef431a4dfa


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>