deps: add support for BoringSSL QUIC APIs

Acquired from: https://github.com/akamai/openssl/tree/OpenSSL_1_1_1f-quic

Squashed:

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https://github.com/akamai/openssl/commit/2ef7c58b2cb432abd4e371322667228d7ce2637b
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https://github.com/akamai/openssl/commit/3f8eda3128f52f4d14399a1a912d1fdfacd86a86
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https://github.com/akamai/openssl/commit/b37f665884be2e17e8ff4ad919138626fb13f6c9
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https://github.com/akamai/openssl/commit/6b235895a16da3c0dd36a24cf8dfbe249c6cda3c
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https://github.com/akamai/openssl/commit/3a793e06a5031311ce7ce094455be87fa92b8240

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32379


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>