build: do not depend on `cp` in `PATH`

Use gyp’s own copying mechanism instead.

It’s not really clear which UNIX utils exactly are needed to build on
Windows, but this is an easier fix (at least for me) than figuring
out how to get `cp` into the `PATH` in all cases, and judging
from the issue I’m not the only one who ran into this.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/20272

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20296


Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>