http: set IncomingMessage.destroyed

IncomingMessage is a Readable stream and should properly
set the destroyed property.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/33131


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Juan José Arboleda <soyjuanarbol@gmail.com>