tools: add ESLint rule no-array-destructuring

Iterating over arrays should be avoided because it relies on
user-mutable global methods (`Array.prototype[Symbol.iterator]`
and `%ArrayIteratorPrototype%.next`), we should instead use
other alternatives. This commit adds a rule that disallow
array destructuring syntax in favor of object destructuring syntax.
Note that you can ignore this rule if you are using
the array destructuring syntax over a safe iterable, or
actually want to iterate over a user-provided object.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/36818


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>