build: do not run benchmark tests on 'make test'

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/34427

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34434


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>