deps: upgrade to libuv 1.20.2

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24103
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20129
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/20112
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/19903


Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <riclau@uk.ibm.com>