fs: deprecation warning on recursive rmdir

This is a follow up to #35494 to add a deprecation warning when
using recursive rmdir. This only warns if you are attempting
to remove a file or a nonexistent path.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35562


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Coe <bencoe@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>