stream: async iterator stop read if destroyed

Fixes some compatibility issues where it is expected
that for await stops reading when the stream is
destroyed.

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/34887

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35640


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>