src: add --openssl-legacy-provider option

This commit adds an option to Node.js named --openssl-legacy-provider
and if specified will load OpenSSL 3.0 Legacy provider.

$ ./node --help
...
--openssl-legacy-provider  enable OpenSSL 3.0 legacy provider

Example usage:

$ ./node --openssl-legacy-provider  -p 'crypto.createHash("md4")'
Hash {
  _options: undefined,
  [Symbol(kHandle)]: Hash {},
  [Symbol(kState)]: { [Symbol(kFinalized)]: false }
}

Co-authored-by: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/40455
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/40478
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/40455


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Tobias Nießen <tniessen@tnie.de>