deps: fix gyp/gypi for openssl-1.1.1

Some of defines and cppflags in the build config of OpenSSL-1.1.1 were
moved to new attributes. Gyp and gypi file generations are needed to be
fixed to include them.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/25381


Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Shigeki Ohtsu <ohtsu@ohtsu.org>