src: allow to negate boolean CLI flags

This change allows all boolean flags to be negated using the `--no-`
prefix.
Flags that are `true` by default (for example `--deprecation`) are
still documented as negations.
With this change, it becomes possible to easily flip the default
value of a boolean flag and to override the value of a flag passed
in the NODE_OPTIONS environment variable.
`process.allowedNodeEnvironmentFlags` contains both the negated and
non-negated versions of boolean flags.

Co-authored-by: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39023


Reviewed-By: Franziska Hinkelmann <franziska.hinkelmann@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>