perf_hooks: fix timing

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17892
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/17893
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/18992

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22380
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/18993


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anatoli Papirovski <apapirovski@mac.com>