util: fix isInsideNodeModules inside error

When isInsideNodeModules gets called while already processing
another stack trace, V8 will not call prepareStackTrace again.
This used to cause Node.js to just crash — fix it by checking
for expected return type of the stack (Array).

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20266
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/20258


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>