deps: V8: cherry-pick 821fb3883a8e

Original commit message:

    [serializer] avoid deferring objects with embedder fields

    JS objects with embedder fields cannot be deferred because the
    serialize/deserialize callbacks need the back reference immediately
    to identify the object.

    Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node-v8/issues/175
    Bug: v8:11146
    Change-Id: I4292f2ab0041f7b0779620437ed26905c194cd9b
    Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2531195


Reviewed-by: Jakob Gruber <jgruber@chromium.org>
    Commit-Queue: Joyee Cheung <joyee@igalia.com>
    Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#71134}

Refs: https://github.com/v8/v8/commit/821fb3883a8e388bc125d5e38fad701b4fb163f2

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35700


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Shelley Vohr <codebytere@gmail.com>