lib: make isStackOverflowError() engine-agnostic

Assumption that stack overflow exception has name == "RangeError" is
v8-specific.  Updated logic to dynamically capture error name when
capturing error message.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19705


Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>