test: improve WASI options validation

Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30770/files#r353051438

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/30800


Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>