async_hooks: move PromiseHook handler to JS

This avoids the need to wrap every promise in an AsyncWrap and also
makes it easier to skip the machinery to track destroy events when
there's no destroy listener.

Co-authored-by: Andrey Pechkurov <apechkurov@gmail.com>

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/32891


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Andrey Pechkurov <apechkurov@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Gerhard Stöbich <deb2001-github@yahoo.de>
Reviewed-By: Chengzhong Wu <legendecas@gmail.com>