test: confirm tls server suite default is its own

When honorCipherOrder is not explicitly set, it defaults to true, cover
this condition in the test. Also, run all tests in parallel, instead of
sequentially.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24374


Reviewed-By: Daniel Bevenius <daniel.bevenius@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Franziska Hinkelmann <franziska.hinkelmann@gmail.com>