test: fix races in test-performance-eventlooputil

Fix two races in test-performance-eventlooputil resulting in a flaky
test.

elu1 was capture after start time t from spin look. If OS descides to
reschedule the process after capturing t but before getting elu for
>=50ms the spin loop is actually a nop. elu1 doesn't show this and as
a result elut3 = eventLoopUtilization(elu1) results in
elu3.active === 0.
Moving capturing of t after capturing t, just before the spin look
avoids this.

Similar if OS decides to shedule a different process between getting
the total elu from start and the diff elu showing the spin loop the
check to verify that total active time is long then the spin loop
fails.
Exchanging these statements avoids this race.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/36028
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/35309


Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>