tools: don't print gold linker warning w/o flag

Currently warning is printed called even if the selection ordering flag
has not been passed.

Only print warning if `--limit-configure-section-file`
has been passed to configure.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/35872

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/35955


Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>