http2: handle 0-length headers better

Ignore headers with 0-length names and track memory for headers
the way we track it for other HTTP/2 session memory too.

This is intended to mitigate CVE-2019-9516.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29124
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29122


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>