doc: add steps for running addons + npm tests

Currently we do not document how to run the test suite for native
modules or for npm. This commit updates BUILDING.md with the
information needed to do so. It includes a caveat about Node v4
and earlier requiring `make install` to be run before running the npm
test suite.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/6231


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Jeremiah Senkpiel <fishrock123@rocketmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>