util: improve iterator inspect output

1) So far extra keys on an (Set|Map)Iterator were ignored. Those
   will now be visible.
2) Improve the performance of showing (Set|Map)Iterator by using
   the cloned iterator instead of copying all entries first.
3) So far the output was strictly limited to up to 100 entries.
   The limit will now depend on `maxArrayLength` instead (that
   default is set to 100 as well) and the output indicates that
   more entries exist than visible.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19259


Reviewed-By: Yosuke Furukawa <yosuke.furukawa@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Tiancheng "Timothy" Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>