build: reconfigure when gyp files change on Windows

Previously only changes to .gypi files trigger a reconfigure
on Windows.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/39066


Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>