test: add dns memory error test

Add test that confirms that when libuv reports a memory error on a DNS
query, that the memory error is passed through and not replaced with
ENOTFOUND.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20317


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>