zlib: do not unref() if wasn't ref()ed

In very unlikely case, where `deflateInit2()` may return error (right
now happening only on exhausting all memory), the `ZCtx::Error()` will
be called and will try to `Unref()` the handle. But the problem is that
this handle was never `Ref()`ed, so it will trigger an assertion error
and crash the program.

Reviewed-by: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
PR-URL: https://github.com/joyent/node/pull/8687

Cherry-picked-from: https://github.com/joyent/node/commit/8c868989be778246bc4b9558f087d0f93724b83d