http2: stop reading from socket if writes are in progress

If a write to the underlying socket finishes asynchronously, that
means that we cannot write any more data at that point without waiting
for it to finish. If this happens, we should also not be producing any
more input.

This is part of mitigating CVE-2019-9511/CVE-2019-9517.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29123
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/29122


Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>