fs: allow int64 offset in fs.read/readSync/fd.read

Since v10.10.0, 'buf' can be any DataView, meaning the largest
byteLength can be Float64Array.BYTES_PER_ELEMENT * kMaxLength =
17,179,869,176.

'offset' can now be up to 2**53 - 1. This makes it possible to tile
reads into a large buffer.

Breaking: now throws if read offset is not a safe int, is null or
is undefined.

Fixes https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/26563

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26572


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>
Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <usharma1998@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>