build: add OpenSSL-1.1.0 support

- For Windows, nasm is new build requirements and openssl_no_asm is
  set to 1 with warning if it is not installed.
- For use of openssl assemble codes, either gas_version >= 2.23,
  xcode_version >= 5.0 ,llvm_version >= 3.3 or nasm_version >= 2.10 is
  needed. Otherwise, openssl_no_asm is set to 1 with warning.
- FIPS is not supported in OpenSSL-1.1.0 so that it leads an error
  when openssl_fips options is enabled in configure.

Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/4270
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/19794


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>