build,win: teach GYP MSVS generator about MARMASM

The toolchain for ARM64 Windows includes support for assembly code, but
with a very different syntax from MASM and NASM. This change teaches
GYP how to emit the right XML tags in VCXPROJ files to support
compiling assembly files with the new tool.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26020
Refs: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/25998


Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: João Reis <reis@janeasystems.com>
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>