crypto: do not allow multiple calls to setAuthTag

Calling setAuthTag multiple times can result in hard to detect bugs
since to the user, it is unclear which invocation actually affected
OpenSSL.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/22931


Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ujjwal Sharma <usharma1998@gmail.com>