src: introduce USE() for silencing compiler warnings

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/17333


Reviewed-By: Timothy Gu <timothygu99@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>