process: add --redirect-warnings command line argument

The --redirect-warnings command line argument allows process warnings
to be written to a specified file rather than printed to stderr.

Also adds an equivalent NODE_REDIRECT_WARNINGS environment variable.

If the specified file cannot be opened or written to for any reason,
the argument is ignored and the warning is printed to stderr.

If the file already exists, it will be appended to.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/10116


Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <michael_dawson@ca.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Michal Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Fedor Indutny <fedor.indutny@gmail.com>