lib: switch to internalBinding for cjs loader

Switch the cjs loader to use internalBinding instead of
process.binding for reading command line options.

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/23492


Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gus Caplan <me@gus.host>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Gireesh Punathil <gpunathi@in.ibm.com>
Reviewed-By: Trivikram Kamat <trivikr.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Ruben Bridgewater <ruben@bridgewater.de>