http: add options to http.createServer()

This adds the optional options argument to `http.createServer()`.
It contains two options: the `IncomingMessage` and `ServerReponse`
option.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/20456
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/15752


Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Anatoli Papirovski <apapirovski@mac.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Evan Lucas <evanlucas@me.com>