tls: add code for ERR_TLS_INVALID_PROTOCOL_METHOD

Add an error code property to invalid `secureProtocol` method
exceptions.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/26951
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24729


Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>