[dev.ssa] cmd/compile: fix possible invalid pointer spill in large Zero/Move on ARM

Instead of comparing the address of the end of the memory to zero/copy,
comparing the address of the last element, which is a valid pointer.
Also unify large and unaligned Zero/Move, by passing alignment as AuxInt.

Fixes #16515 for ARM.

Change-Id: I19a62b31c5acf5c55c16a89bea1039c926dc91e5
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/25300


Run-TryBot: Cherry Zhang <cherryyz@google.com>
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Reviewed-by: David Chase <drchase@google.com>