block: Avoid that blk_exit_rl() triggers a use-after-free

Since the introduction of .init_rq_fn() and .exit_rq_fn() it is
essential that the memory allocated for struct request_queue
stays around until all blk_exit_rl() calls have finished. Hence
make blk_init_rl() take a reference on struct request_queue.

This patch fixes the following crash:

general protection fault: 0000 [#2] SMP
CPU: 3 PID: 28 Comm: ksoftirqd/3 Tainted: G      D         4.12.0-rc2-dbg+ #2
Hardware name: QEMU Standard PC (i440FX + PIIX, 1996), BIOS 1.0.0-prebuilt.qemu-project.org 04/01/2014
task: ffff88013a108040 task.stack: ffffc9000071c000
RIP: 0010:free_request_size+0x1a/0x30
RSP: 0018:ffffc9000071fd38 EFLAGS: 00010202
RAX: 6b6b6b6b6b6b6b6b RBX: ffff880067362a88 RCX: 0000000000000003
RDX: ffff880067464178 RSI: ffff880067362a88 RDI: ffff880135ea4418
RBP: ffffc9000071fd40 R08: 0000000000000000 R09: 0000000100180009
R10: ffffc9000071fd38 R11: ffffffff81110800 R12: ffff88006752d3d8
R13: ffff88006752d3d8 R14: ffff88013a108040 R15: 0000...