libceph: clear msg->con in ceph_msg_release() only

The following bit in ceph_msg_revoke_incoming() is unsafe:

    struct ceph_connection *con = msg->con;
    if (!con)
            return;
    mutex_lock(&con->mutex);
    <more msg->con use>

There is nothing preventing con from getting destroyed right after
msg->con test.  One easy way to reproduce this is to disable message
signing only on the server side and try to map an image.  The system
will go into a

    libceph: read_partial_message ffff880073f0ab68 signature check failed
    libceph: osd0 192.168.255.155:6801 bad crc/signature
    libceph: read_partial_message ffff880073f0ab68 signature check failed
    libceph: osd0 192.168.255.155:6801 bad crc/signature

loop which has to be interrupted with Ctrl-C.  Hit Ctrl-C and you are
likely to end up with a random GP fault if the reset handler executes
"within" ceph_msg_revoke_incoming():

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          <Ctrl-C>
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