blk-wbt: Avoid lock contention and thundering herd issue in wbt_wait

I am currently running a large bare metal instance (i3.metal)
on EC2 with 72 cores, 512GB of RAM and NVME drives, with a
4.18 kernel. I have a workload that simulates a database
workload and I am running into lockup issues when writeback
throttling is enabled,with the hung task detector also
kicking in.

Crash dumps show that most CPUs (up to 50 of them) are
all trying to get the wbt wait queue lock while trying to add
themselves to it in __wbt_wait (see stack traces below).

[    0.948118] CPU: 45 PID: 0 Comm: swapper/45 Not tainted 4.14.51-62.38.amzn1.x86_64 #1
[    0.948119] Hardware name: Amazon EC2 i3.metal/Not Specified, BIOS 1.0 10/16/2017
[    0.948120] task: ffff883f7878c000 task.stack: ffffc9000c69c000
[    0.948124] RIP: 0010:native_queued_spin_lock_slowpath+0xf8/0x1a0
[    0.948125] RSP: 0018:ffff883f7fcc3dc8 EFLAGS: 00000046
[    0.948126] RAX: 0000000000000000 RBX: ffff887f7709ca68 RCX: ffff883f7fce2a00
[    0.948128] RDX: ...