binderfs: switch from d_add() to d_instantiate()

In a previous commit we switched from a d_alloc_name() + d_lookup()
combination to setup a new dentry and find potential duplicates to the more
idiomatic lookup_one_len(). As far as I understand, this also means we need
to switch from d_add() to d_instantiate() since lookup_one_len() will
create a new dentry when it doesn't find an existing one and add the new
dentry to the hash queues. So we only need to call d_instantiate() to
connect the dentry to the inode and turn it into a positive dentry.

If we were to use d_add() we sure see stack traces like the following
indicating that adding the same dentry twice over the same inode:

[  744.441889] CPU: 4 PID: 2849 Comm: landscape-sysin Not tainted 5.0.0-rc1-brauner-binderfs #243
[  744.441889] Hardware name: Dell      DCS XS24-SC2          /XS24-SC2              , BIOS S59_3C20 04/07/2011
[  744.441889] RIP: 0010:__d_lookup_rcu+0x76/0x190
[  744.441889] Code: 89 75 c0 49 c1 e9 20 49 89 fd 45 89 ce 41 83 e6 07...