Move Map::ReconfigureExistingProperty to MapUpdater

This is part of moving towards MapUpdater as the bottleneck for map
updates.

Drive-by: Move helpers.
Drive-by: Use a plain std::queue instead of a ZoneQueue in
UpdateFieldType.

Bug: v8:7790
Change-Id: Iff80a6e9bf3390a010305f7998d6f6dad2bce09f
Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/2807602


Commit-Queue: Jakob Gruber <jgruber@chromium.org>
Auto-Submit: Jakob Gruber <jgruber@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Igor Sheludko <ishell@chromium.org>
Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/master@{#73851}