Add type_caster<std::monostate> (#3818)

* Add type_caster<std::monostate> for std::variant

Add type_caster<std::monostate>, allowing std::variant<std::monostate, ...>

* Add  variant<std::monostate, ...> test methods

* Add std::monostate tests

* Update test_stl.py

Remove erroneous extra tests

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* Update test fn name

* And update the doc() test

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