test pair-copyability on C++17 upwards (#1886)

* test pair-copyability on C++17 upwards

The stdlib falsely detects containers like M=std::map<T, U>
as copyable, even when one of T and U is not copyable.
Therefore we cannot rely on the stdlib dismissing std::pair<T, M>
by itself, even on C++17.

* fix is_copy_assignable

bind_map used std::is_copy_assignable which suffers from the same problems
as std::is_copy_constructible, therefore the same fix has been applied.

* created tests for copyability